A Complete Transformation of My Life

Attending Teacher Chou Ting Wen's class has profoundly impacted my life. It has completely changed how I live. For ten years, my husband and I lived apart, with him taking care of the kids at home while I worked hard as a "superwoman." I often felt uncomfortable and distressed about our separation, and it seemed like my life had turned into a struggle against money. I was physically and mentally exhausted. Growing up, I was often mistaken for a boy, acting and speaking in a way that felt masculine. I was uncomfortable but didn't understand why. During my first class, Teacher Chou pointed out that it is not good for spouses to be separated, but I did not realize it. In the second class, when we participated in a systemic constellation exercise, everything changed for me. I realized that my difficulties at work stemmed from my family situation. I took a moment to reflect on the past decade, and I understood that the root of my discomfort lay in my family dynamics. I knew then that I needed to make a change. While the teacher could present the insights, I have to take action to change. After some time following the class, I told my husband I wanted to come home. I was willing to leave everything in Shenzhen to return to Baoji. Deep down, I realized I didn't want to let go. Unexpected changes began to occur, just as the teacher had said: when you change, everything around you starts to change. My husband and son were both willing to come to Shenzhen for business and school, something I once thought was impossible since they had never wanted to come here before. Now, they were excited and eager to come. My husband expressed a desire to change his way of life, while my son wanted to attend school in a big city. So now they are both in Shenzhen. My son is enjoying his new school, and my husband has found his place here, with his business gradually getting underway. Although I still need to adjust and adapt, I already feel much happier, with more ease and comfort than before. Thank you, Teacher Chou. I am truly grateful for your guidance, which has transformed not only my life but also my family's. We are now a happy and joyful family.

Wishing you well; may you have peace and happiness throughout your life.

Participant Wang Qiong (Mainland China)